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Paul Joseph Traficanti

Paul Joseph Traficanti, loving husband of Judith (Judy) Phelan Traficanti and father of three sons, Bryan, Michael and Paul James, passed away on Friday, the 24th of September, 2021, at the age of 75.

Paul was born on March 19, 1946 in Queens, New York, to the late Joseph J. Traficanti Sr. and Mary Verdi Traficanti. At a very young age, beginning in 1952, he spent the majority of his formative years in Accord, a small rural hamlet in upstate, New York. He attended Rondout Valley High School and latter attained an associate degree from the Ulster County Community College and a Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology from SUNY New Paltz.

Following a tradition inherited from his mother Mary and his grandmother “Nana Rose”, he developed an enduring passion for eating and preparing wholesome and delicious food, especially Italian dishes. This led him to his lifelong career as a chef extraordinaire. He began that profession in a small-town restaurant in Rosendale NY, where he was tutored by several “old masters” from Italy –the kind of hands-on training unavailable in formal curricula. This background was enriched by others from the “old school” of culinary arts at the celebrated Salvucci’s Restaurant in West Hurley, NY, where he served as one of the primary chefs for 19 years. Subsequently, along with his sister, Rita Byde, and her husband Ed, Paul opened Traficanti’s Hillside Restaurant in Accord NY, until their retirement in 2004. Here he worked not only as the main chef to the restaurant, but also arranged the purchasing and much of the preparation to assure that every dish was nutritious and wholesome as well as being attractively presented.

In a short break from his chosen vocation of chef, Paul served as a supervising counselor at the Saint Cabrini Home, a non-profit organization in West Park, NY, serving youth with emotional or family difficulties. In this avocation he was able to utilize his psychology degree, to the maximum, in a very challenging environment. Here, as always, Paul displayed his characteristically caring, empathetic compassion and generosity in assisting needy youth in their hopeful transition to normal and productive lives. His exterior facade belied a very soft, compassionate, and loving spirit –always quick to smile. Paul was known by all to be ready to help others, be they family, friends or strangers at any time, day or night.

In the years following his career, Paul enjoyed a fulfilling retirement; tending to his beloved property often with his canine companion Suki by his side. He was an avid gardener, and had a great appreciation for the wildlife and natural beauty of his surroundings. Paul developed a fondness for Italian Opera in his later years, and you’d often hear the robust music echoing from his room - unless of course, the Mets were playing.

Paul Joseph Traficanti is predeceased by his Father Joseph J Traficanti Sr. and his mother Mary Verdi Traficanti. He is survived by his loving wife Judith (Judy) Phelan Traficanti and his three sons; Bryan Traficanti, Michael Traficanti, and Paul James Traficanti; his two grandsons, Hails Traficanti and Hastings Traficanti; his brother Joseph J Traficanti Jr., his sister Rita Byde and a number of cousins, nieces and nephews.

A private ceremony will be held for Paul’s family. Condolences from friends and the community are welcome and can be posted on the Humiston Funeral Home website or on the Facebook Obituary post for Paul.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Paul’s memory can be made to the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center (mskcc.org).


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A candle was lit in memory of Paul Traficanti

Tina Oct 13 2021 10:23 AM

I knew Paul from working with him at HRM. He was a wonderful man, very funny, and a good friend. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. He will be missed and always loved.

Katie Oct 12 2021 8:07 PM

A candle was lit in memory of Paul Traficanti

Katie Oct 12 2021 7:59 PM

Every memory I have of Uncle Paul is smiles and happiness. I wish him peace now that he's moved on, he will be fondly missed. Love, Brittany

Brittany Phelan Oct 11 2021 7:43 PM

Paul is several years older than I am, but I remember playing football with him. I am sad to hear that he is now gone.

Eric Johnson Oct 7 2021 5:32 PM

A kind and gentle man who was a excellent listener and easy to talk to. He was very intelligent with solid ideas and beliefs. He is greatly missed.

Irene Ng Oct 5 2021 7:05 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Paul Traficanti

Wayfinding Partners Oct 4 2021 4:38 PM

I have so many fond memories of Uncle Paul. We could not have asked for a better Uncle. Warm, loving, always someone we knew we could talk to or turn to for advice. You were comforting and caring and just an all around great person who radiated warmth. We all loved your cooking, of course, and your great sense of humor. Uncle Paul - you will be missed. Love, Maria

Maria Traficanti Oct 2 2021 6:53 AM

LUncle Paul, my memories of you are laden with good food, your warm smile, and your kind energy. There is little else I could have asked for. In eternal gratitude for your presence. Wishing you peace, Courtney

Courtney Ng Oct 1 2021 10:40 PM

Paul will always be remembered for bringing a smile or a laugh to the people around him. May the memories of those laughs and smiles bring comfort to his family and friends. Sharon Quick Cobb

Sharon Cobb Oct 1 2021 8:39 PM

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